Too Many tins of Tomatoes.
He was such a control freak. The burst of anger would come from nowhere. He would make me carry all the groceries from the car when I was in the late stages of pregnancy. He would organise the pantry, even though he never cooked. Then would through tins of tomatoes at screaming “you have too many tins of tomatoes “ If I started limping or bandaged any of my injuries he would then say “ why are you limping … I didn’t do that”